Consider the cost

A friend sent this article to me this morning and I found it to be pretty interesting.  On the one hand I REALLY feel for this church, partly because I’ve had my own share of dealing with an unpleasant neighbor at home whose tone and demeanor strikes me as eerily similar to the neighbors quoted in this article.  Add that to the fact that the church has probably had to deal with their own share of internal complaining about style, volume, etc. and I can only imagine how tiring and frustrating this must be for the church staff.

On the other hand, it raises an interesting question – when it comes to being missional, at what point do our practices begin to undermine our principles?  I don’t know anything about this church other than what I read from the article, but it seems that they are passionate about reaching people and are effectively doing so in creative and relevant ways.  Yet when you begin thinking missionally in order to reach people, there will almost certainly be a cost – in this case, it comes in the form of a lack of respect from (and potential to reach) a handful of neighbors (and of course now that the local media is running the story there will be a whole new set of polarized opinions about this church…some positive, others negative).  And as frustrating as it may be, this church needs to be (as I’m sure they already are) weighing the cost of whatever methods they choose to use in order to spread the Gospel.

Now with that said, while I don’t think He would have gotten into an argument with anyone over 1st Amendment Rights, Jesus didn’t really seem to worry about losing anyone’s respect.  He actually pretty consistently offended people by His teaching and actions.  Yet his goal was never to offend, but rather to convict, to teach and to show.  So I guess maybe that needs to be the metric or the filter through which we run our methods and practices in order to determine whether they are still serving our principles – does whatever it is that we are doing still effectively display Gospel priorities by imitating Christ?  If the answer is yes, then by all means we must soldier on, understanding that we will get opposition that we will simply have to patiently and lovingly manage.  If the answer is at all a no, then it’s time to rethink our practices.

Here’s the article: Seattle Times – Loud music at sheriff’s church rocks neighbors

Death to Life

Joe Day album cover
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Yesterday we introduced the song “Death to Life”.  I love this song for a number of reasons, but I especially liked it in the context of yesterday’s sermon on Mark 2:18-3:6, specifically for its second verse.  There are plenty of us who can relate to the repentance and restoration story of the prodigal son in the first verse, but I think, for the majority of us, we have been called from the death of religious pride – “white washed tombs” – to a life of freedom in Christ by His grace alone.  Like the Pharisees, we were actually at war with God through our religious, legalistic attempts to find Him until Jesus came and offered a way out of our own futile efforts.

“Death to Life”
By Joe Day & Nate Garvey

I was the prodigal son
I was hell-bound on my own
I was the wandering sheep
Till you came and rescued me

You are my redemption
You are my salvation
You called me out from death to life
You beckoned me from dark to light
Who am I that you have rescued me

I was a white-washed tomb
Sinful even in the womb
I was at war with you
Till you came and made me new

You are my redemption
You are my salvation
You called me out from death to life
You beckoned me from dark to light

I breathe because Your word is life
You guide me with Your shining light
Redeem my heart, my fallen glory
And let me tell your wondrous story

You are my redemption
You are my salvation
You called me out from death to life
You beckoned me from dark to light
Who am I that you have rescued me

Getting men to sing, pt. 1

Getting back into writing after a few crazy weeks…

The last part of April consisted of working on our Good Friday and Easter services (which went really well…I’m hoping to post a couple videos from Good Friday here in the near future), and then the first week of May, Michelle and I welcomed the newest addition to our family!  Hansen Kenneth (“Hank”) was born on May 2nd.  Everything went perfectly and we are happily adjusting to being a family of four and the inevitable sleep deprivation that goes with a new baby.

This past weekend our church held a men’s event we call Fight Club.  It’s like a retreat, except that we host everything on campus so we don’t actually “retreat” anywhere.  One of the highlights of the event for me was leading worship for around 75 men, which got me thinking about the unique topic of trying to get men to sing.  While the basic principles behind the why and the what of worship don’t ever change, I’ve realized that the how (besides, of course, worshiping in Spirit and Truth) is and needs to be a bit more elastic depending on the “crowd”.

I’ve encountered various lists before that attempted to give basic principles on how to encourage men to sing in church, and since I’m fresh off of a weekend of putting it into practice, it seemed good to present my own list here.  So, here you go – Ryan’s list of things to consider when leading worship for men:

singing man1. Men CAN sing

This may seem funny as the first item on the list, but I think too often we sell men short and write them off when it comes to singing in worship.  I can say from firsthand experience that some of the most powerful times of corporate worship I’ve experienced have been in the company of men singing boldly, powerfully, and passionately for Jesus.  Not only should we not write off guys when it comes to singing in worship, we should expect them to be the ones dominating the soundscape of praise in our churches.

2. Men like substance

This one shouldn’t be a surprise to anyone.  Generally speaking, us men think more than we feel…we describe more than we express…we state or declare more than we emote.  While it is necessary for the scope of worship to cover the spectrum of the human response to God, it is simply more natural for a man to resonate with a text containing rich, descriptive theology or a declarative anthem than with a song that is more emotional in nature.  This doesn’t mean that guys can’t or shouldn’t be emotional; in fact, there are certainly times when it is only appropriate to respond to God with deep, pouring-out-our-souls-to-God emotion.  It just doesn’t come as natural to us – and that’s ok, because that’s part of how God made us.

3. Men like being led by men

This one may sound a bit sexist, but really it’s just an observation.  Here’s what is true: men follow men.  If you want to get guys in your church to sing, you better have guys leading, or at minimum, helping lead the singing.

To be continued…

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